Lubricants 101: Which One Should You Use?

đź’§ Lubricants 101: Which One Should You Use?

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Let’s be honest — lube doesn’t get enough credit.

Whether you're flying solo, exploring with a partner, or spicing things up with a toy, a good lubricant makes everything smoother (literally and figuratively). But choosing one? That can feel like stepping into a maze.

So, we’re breaking it down — no fluff, just real talk. Here's what you need to know.


đź’§ Water-Based vs. Silicone-Based Lube

If you’ve ever stood in front of a shelf wondering “What’s the difference?” — this is for you.

đź«§ Water-Based Lube

  • Safe to use with any toy (yes, even silicone!)

  • Easy to clean (just rinse with water)

  • Feels natural and light

  • Might need a reapply during longer sessions

đź’ś Our Pick:
ZOET Water-Based Lube →
Gentle, no-nonsense, and perfect for everyday use. At just R50, it’s a win for first-timers and couples alike.


đź–¤ Silicone-Based Lube

  • Silky-smooth and long-lasting

  • Great for shower play (it doesn’t wash away easily)

  • Perfect for longer sessions or anal play

  • Avoid with silicone toys — it can damage the material

đź–¤ Try This:
Amoreux Silicone Lube →
This is your "we're not playing around" lube — smooth, luxurious, and built to last.


🌿 Something a Bit Different?

If you’re into trying something local, soothing, and just a little more special — check this out:

🌿 XO African Tree Jam – Water-Based Lube →
Made for comfort and moisture. It’s great for skin, toy-safe, and adds some flair to your foreplay.


🙋♀️ So, Which One Do You Actually Need?

Here’s a cheat sheet:

  • Using toys? Water-based is your friend.

  • Want it to last longer? Go silicone (but not with silicone toys!).

  • Sensitive skin? Try something natural, like XO Jam.

  • On a budget or starting out? ZOET is more than enough to get started.

And hey — don’t overthink it. Lube is personal. Try one, see how it feels, then switch it up if needed.


đź›’ Ready to Stock Up?

👉 Browse all our Lubricants here
Or just grab one from above — we deliver fast, and you’ll be glad you added it to the mix.

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